THE ROLE OF PARENTS IN THEIR CHILDREN'S ACADEMIC SUCCESS
Beyond the classroom, another setting plays a crucial role in children’s academic success: the home. In Benin, where educational challenges remain numerous, parental involvement is a key factor in guiding students toward excellence. But in practical terms, what can parents do, regardless of their financial means or level of education?
Even before starting school, children receive their earliest education within their families. This foundation profoundly influences their relationship with learning. “School merely complements work that has already begun at home. The values passed down by parents shape academic success,” explains the sociologist. Among these values are respect, discipline, perseverance, and a willingness to work hard. A child needs a supportive environment to study effectively. This includes a quiet space, basic school supplies, and a structured schedule. Even in modest circumstances, parents can create an environment that fosters learning. “It’s not wealth that leads to academic success, but the quality of guidance,” notes the educational psychologist.
Academic monitoring: a key factor…
Regularly monitoring school activities is crucial. Parents should check homework, discuss lessons, and take an interest in their child’s performance. But be careful! The goal is not to replace the teacher but to support the child. A child who can talk openly with their parents feels more comfortable expressing their difficulties.
Experts recommend listening without judging, encouraging effort, and acknowledging progress. Many parents want to see their children succeed, sometimes to the point of putting excessive pressure on them. However, this can have the opposite effect, leading to stress, mental blocks, and even a loss of confidence.
“You have to motivate without overwhelming them. Children must learn for themselves, not just to please their parents,” warns the educational psychologist. Children learn a great deal by imitation. A parent who reads regularly, takes an interest in current events, and values education has a positive influence on their child. Academic success depends on a partnership between parents and teachers. This involves attending parent-teacher meetings, communicating with teachers, and following educational recommendations.
The challenges specific to the Beninese context relate to a lack of time, as many parents are absorbed by their economic activities. There are also financial difficulties. In practice, tuition fees, school supplies, and many other expenses pose real challenges. Furthermore, due to the low level of education among some parents, some feel unable to help their children.
But as the sociologist points out, “even an uneducated parent can successfully guide their child by instilling discipline and a respect for work.” Consequently, as concrete and accessible strategies, parents should set study hours, encourage reading, praise their children’s efforts, avoid comparisons, and maintain constant communication.
A child who receives proper guidance is more likely to succeed in school, develop social skills, and enter the workforce. Academic success is not built solely at school. It is the result of parents’ daily commitment—often unobtrusive but crucial. By becoming actively involved, every parent plays a key role in their child’s success and, beyond that, in the development of society as a whole.